Friday, January 27, 2017

Learning to Give Up.....?πŸ€”

Hi Everyone!!!!πŸ‘‹ It has been so long.

Well I am sure everyone is wondering why the title has a bit of a negative vibe? But the reality it isn't so bad...call me crazy right...😡. Well lets think about it shall we.....πŸ€”. There is a saying that either a parent, friend, priest or whoever give you advice, may have said to you. That is "when a door closes on you another one may open." I happen to see this and live by this all the time. My mother is one to tell me all the time. She said "Its kind of like giving up or the opportunity wasn't meant for you at the time". 

Well so I went along with it and to be honest I was really upset, mad and all the negative feeling that everyone feels every once in a while. 


OK so let me tell you how all this came to be.....lol It is truly a story when it comes to my life I tell you😊.

So as everyone knows that I had wish I could stay in my lovely city of Los Angeles, California the life style, the rush, the terrible traffic etc.. the dream goes on lol. Well I guess I have to say I use to...... At some point in November 2016 my family decided to move once again!..... (Why is she moving again for goodness sake!!!!) I know right idk to be honest I think my family just loves to move around all the time to see if life could be like it use to be, at least that's what I think? 😐 ANYWAYS... yes I have return to the country side I once said I dread. But you know.... I actually miss it....😊 I somehow started to call it home lol. My goal, as, I once said a few blogs back, was to make it out in Cali but I probably mention that I might not make it just because the life style is expensive and very difficult to maintain. I had a goal I had what I needed but the reality was it was too hard for me to maintain. Let me be honest and really blunt.....Cali is expensive, really demanding and just straight up hard to get a job and the traffic is horrible. But I made it for a year and I am proud of what I accomplish. But sometime when something just isn't going as you plan we have to abandoned ship swim to shore and rebuilt another ship and try again. Either by going a different route or the same to complete your journey.

So is giving up really a negative thing? Me personally,πŸ˜‰ I don't think so. I think it's another opportunity, another journey, another message or a better life. Who knows maybe my original plan might come in a different way. Sometime things do come unexpectedly.... THAT I can state as a fact because it has happen a lot to me. 

So if you think about giving up look at it in a different way is it really giving up? Ask your self... Maybe this a different solution to the problem. Like my mom said all the time... "when there is a problem☝ there is always a solution😘".  

LOL My mom should write her own book she always has a saying or a phrase to say for every doubt or issue I am having in life and here I am sharing it with you guys lol.😏



πŸ’œWell my lovelies until next time, πŸ‘‹ I hope everyone the very best, prayer to each and everyone of you. May your goals be accomplish or close to completion. Let your wishes be granted and many more.πŸ˜˜πŸ’œ